Blog

Blog

HARCELEMENT SCOLAIRE

Publié le 5 septembre 2018 à 15:15

Environ "un enfant sur dix" est victime de harcèlement scolaire, "12% en primaire, 10% au collège et 3 ou 4% au lycée", a rappelé dimanche 2 septembre sur franceinfo, Catherine Verdier, psychologue et analyste, spécialiste des enfants et adolescents, à la veille de la rentrée scolaire. 12 millions d'écoliers, de collégiens et de lycéens reprennent le chemin de l'école lundi.


"Le harcèlement scolaire ce n'est pas un conflit, ce n'est pas un jeux d'enfants, c'est une violence répétée, continue, de la part d'un ou de plusieurs élèves à l'égard d'un enfant" avec "ce concept, horrible à dire, qui est de nuire", a expliqué la spécialiste. "Au bout d'un moment, les faits, les actes, les paroles vont abîmer la victime qui va finir par perdre l'estime de soi, la confiance en soi", décrit-elle, déplorant qu'il n'y ait pas assez de personnes formées en France pour aider les enfants à sortir de cette situation.

franceinfo : Est-ce qu'on sait combien d'élèves seraient victimes d'harcèlement scolaire en France ?

Catherine Verdier : Les chiffres officiels c'est grosso modo, un enfant sur dix. Il faut savoir qu'il y a 12% de harcèlement scolaire en primaire, 10% au collège et 3 ou 4% au lycée. Le collège étant plutôt caractérisé par le cyber-harcèlement. Le harcèlement scolaire c'est une violence, ce n'est pas un conflit, ce n'est pas un jeux d'enfants, c'est une violence répétée, continue, de la part d'un ou de plusieurs élèves à l'égard d'un enfant. On a une disproportion des forces, c'est-à-dire qu'on a un enfant qui est plus fort qu'un autre qui a du mal à se défendre. Et puis vous avez ce concept, horrible à dire, qui est de nuire. Au bout d'un moment, les faits, les actes, les paroles vont abîmer cet enfant, cette victime qui va finir par perdre l'estime de soi, la confiance en soi. Cette victime va raser les murs, elle ne va plus vouloir aller en cours, elle va être mal et l'agresseur, ou les agresseurs, voient leur travail et ils continuent pourtant, c'est ce qu'on appelle l'intentionnalité ou l'intention de nuire et là, on parle de harcèlement. A sept ans, on peut avoir conscience que le harcèlement fait mal. C'est vrai que la notion de groupe n'est pas complètement établie avant six ou sept ans, donc les statistiques démarrent à partir de 7-8 ans. Au-delà de huit ans, oui, ils savent qu'ils font mal. [Concernant le cyber-harcèlement] parfois certains enfants arrivent à en parler, pouvoir trouver un adulte à qui se confier même si on a honte et peur, il faut absolument en parler effectivement.

Est-ce que les enseignants et les éducateurs sont suffisamment formés et informés pour détecter qu'un enfant est victime d'harcèlement ?

Là-dessus je suis formelle, non. Il n'y a pas assez de gens formés. On a tous les outils en France, on a tout ce qu'il faut pour lutter contre une situation de harcèlement. En particulier la méthode Pikas, qui est une méthode de préoccupation partagée et qui permet de résoudre une situation de harcèlement. On peut en fait un cheval de bataille comme dit le gouvernement mais je crois qu'au-delà de ça, il faut aller vers de la prévention avant que le cyber-harcèlement n'arrive. Il faut éduquer les enfants à ce qu'on appelle les compétences sociales, les compétences psycho-sociales, à savoir se parler, se regarder, s'entendre, s'écouter, à connaître et à reconnaître les émotions de l'autre, ou encore à pouvoir se mettre à la place de quelqu'un d'autre. Il faut savoir que l'empathie par exemple, existe chez les tout-petits, chez les bébés à partir de 18 mois.

Quand on est parent, qu'est-ce qui doit alerter ?

Tout changement brusque de comportement. Un enfant qui était bon élève et qui ne l'est plus, un enfant qui ne veut pas manger ou qui a des problèmes de sommeil, qui ne veut plus aller à l'école ou s'investir dans ses activités qu'il adorait. Dans ces cas-là, il faut s'interroger, ce n'est pas forcément du harcèlement scolaire mais il faut être vigilant et attentif. Il faut essayer d'entrer en communication avec l'enfant, essayer de savoir ce qu'il se passe, aller voir les enseignants éventuellement pour discuter de comment ça se passe en classe, essayer d'avoir un dialogue avec l'école.

Il y a un peu plus d'un an, le gouvernement a mis en place un plan pour lutter contre le harcèlement à l'école avec une journée nationale, une campagne de sensibilisation et un numéro vert, le 3020, est-ce que c'est suffisant ? Que proposez-vous ?

Ce n'est pas suffisant. La preuve, les chiffres ne baissent pas. Selon moi, tant que les directions d'écoles ne prendront pas le problème à bras le corps, tant qu'on nous répètera que le harcèlement c'est dans les écoles voisines, pas chez nous... Il y a une forme de déni sur le sujet, une forme d'impuissance aussi pour ceux qui se rendent compte des choses mais qui ne savent pas quoi faire et puis il y en a certains autres qui prennent le problème à bras le corps. Tant qu'on n'aura pas un discours qui vient d'en haut, un discours clair, un discours de chef de file, chacun fera du bricolage.

Catégories : Aucun

Publier un commentaire

Oups !

Oops, you forgot something.

Oups !

Les mots que vous avez saisis ne correspondent pas au texte affiché. Veuillez réessayer.

5936 commentaires

Répondre Payday Express
à 13:47 le 24 mai 2021 
payday advance online loan quick
Répondre jordan 11
à 14:00 le 24 mai 2021 
I am glad for writing to let you know of the useful encounter my cousin's daughter went through browsing your site. She came to understand numerous things, which included how it is like to possess a very effective teaching nature to get the mediocre ones really easily know just exactly various grueling topics. You really did more than people's expected results. I appreciate you for displaying such good, trusted, explanatory and even easy thoughts on the topic to Mary.
jordan 11 http://www.jordan11retro.us.com
Répondre supreme hoodie
à 14:18 le 24 mai 2021 
I wish to voice my admiration for your kindness for folks who really want help on that theme. Your real commitment to passing the message throughout was surprisingly powerful and has always allowed ladies like me to attain their pursuits. This insightful useful information denotes much to me and still more to my office colleagues. Thank you; from each one of us.
supreme hoodie http://www.supremeshoodie.com
Répondre bape
à 15:32 le 24 mai 2021 
Thank you for each of your work on this web page. Ellie loves going through investigations and it is obvious why. Almost all learn all about the lively method you offer helpful steps via your website and as well boost participation from other individuals about this concept while our own princess is undoubtedly studying so much. Have fun with the remaining portion of the year. Your doing a powerful job.
bape http://www.bathing-ape.us
Répondre golden goose
à 15:40 le 24 mai 2021 
I would like to voice my appreciation for your kindness giving support to those people who must have guidance on in this area of interest. Your real dedication to passing the solution across had been pretty useful and has all the time encouraged employees like me to get to their objectives. Your own useful useful information indicates so much a person like me and still more to my fellow workers. Thank you; from everyone of us.
golden goose http://www.goldengooses.us
Répondre hermes
à 15:40 le 24 mai 2021 
My spouse and i ended up being quite more than happy Raymond could deal with his inquiry through the precious recommendations he got from your very own web pages. It's not at all simplistic to just possibly be giving for free tactics which usually some other people could have been selling. We really take into account we now have the blog owner to appreciate for that. The most important explanations you made, the straightforward blog navigation, the relationships you make it possible to create - it is everything impressive, and it is facilitating our son and our family reason why the content is thrilling, which is certainly exceedingly pressing. Many thanks for all the pieces!
hermes http://www.hermes-handbags.us.com
Répondre kyrie irving shoes
à 15:41 le 24 mai 2021 
Thanks so much for giving everyone such a terrific chance to check tips from this website. It is usually so brilliant and jam-packed with a lot of fun for me personally and my office colleagues to visit your blog at the very least three times in one week to find out the fresh secrets you will have. Not to mention, I am just certainly contented with the unique ideas you serve. Certain 3 points on this page are indeed the most effective we've had.
kyrie irving shoes http://www.kyrieirvingshoes.us.com
Répondre kyrie 4
à 15:41 le 24 mai 2021 
I am writing to let you understand what a incredible encounter my cousin's girl found studying your webblog. She figured out some issues, which include how it is like to have an amazing helping mood to get the mediocre ones with no trouble master specific complicated topics. You really did more than visitors' desires. Many thanks for presenting such helpful, dependable, informative and easy guidance on this topic to Kate.
kyrie 4 http://www.kyrie4shoes.us
Répondre yeezys
à 15:41 le 24 mai 2021 
I simply desired to say thanks once again. I am not sure the things that I could possibly have implemented in the absence of the entire tricks revealed by you on this area of interest. It became the distressing problem in my opinion, nevertheless considering the skilled form you treated the issue forced me to cry over delight. I'm just thankful for your advice and even hope you are aware of a great job your are doing instructing some other people with the aid of your web page. I know that you haven't encountered all of us.
yeezys http://www.yeezy-shoes.us.org
Répondre golden goose
à 15:41 le 24 mai 2021 
I wish to convey my admiration for your kind-heartedness in support of people who need assistance with this important concept. Your special commitment to getting the solution throughout became pretty effective and have always made girls just like me to reach their aims. Your personal informative facts denotes so much a person like me and even further to my mates. Best wishes; from each one of us.
golden goose http://www.goldengoosesneakers.us.com
Répondre KiaJoura
à 17:30 le 24 mai 2021 
lisinopril pharmacy online
Répondre moncler jacket
à 17:33 le 24 mai 2021 
I needed to send you one very small observation to give many thanks the moment again over the amazing information you've contributed in this article. It's certainly extremely generous of people like you to convey openly exactly what a lot of people could possibly have supplied as an electronic book to help with making some dough for their own end, notably considering the fact that you could have tried it in the event you decided. The concepts likewise acted like the easy way to be certain that most people have the same fervor the same as mine to realize much more with reference to this condition. I believe there are a lot more pleasant instances up front for those who start reading your blog.
moncler jacket http://www.monclercoat.us.com
Répondre curry 5
à 17:34 le 24 mai 2021 
My wife and i were now ecstatic when Peter managed to do his web research through the entire ideas he gained using your web site. It's not at all simplistic to simply always be releasing tips and tricks that many people today may have been trying to sell. We take into account we have got you to give thanks to for this. Those illustrations you made, the straightforward website menu, the relationships you will help create - it's many unbelievable, and it's really assisting our son and us imagine that that content is pleasurable, and that's extraordinarily pressing. Thanks for everything!
curry 5 http://www.curry5.us.com
Répondre KiaJoura
à 18:15 le 24 mai 2021 
gabapentin gel
Répondre supreme hoodie
à 19:28 le 24 mai 2021 
I must show some thanks to this writer just for rescuing me from this type of challenge. As a result of checking throughout the online world and obtaining views which are not productive, I figured my life was over. Living devoid of the answers to the problems you've resolved through the review is a critical case, and the kind that might have in a negative way damaged my career if I had not noticed the website. Your own expertise and kindness in controlling every part was important. I am not sure what I would've done if I hadn't come across such a point like this. I am able to at this moment relish my future. Thanks so much for the reliable and amazing help. I will not hesitate to recommend your web sites to any individual who needs and wants recommendations about this problem.
supreme hoodie http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Répondre supreme outlet
à 19:55 le 24 mai 2021 
I'm just commenting to let you understand of the impressive discovery my friend's daughter went through reading yuor web blog. She discovered so many pieces, not to mention how it is like to have an excellent helping mindset to get many more quite simply completely grasp specific complicated topics. You undoubtedly exceeded our desires. I appreciate you for churning out those informative, trusted, edifying and also cool tips about that topic to Jane.
supreme outlet http://www.supreme.us.org
Répondre jordan shoes
à 19:58 le 24 mai 2021 
I wanted to post you one very small word so as to give thanks yet again for your great tactics you have contributed in this article. It is so strangely generous of people like you giving extensively all that many people might have marketed as an ebook to get some profit for themselves, certainly considering that you might have done it if you desired. These points additionally acted to be the easy way to be sure that most people have similar fervor much like my very own to understand significantly more concerning this issue. I believe there are millions of more enjoyable opportunities in the future for individuals who take a look at your site.
jordan shoes http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Répondre jordan 1
à 19:59 le 24 mai 2021 
I really wanted to write a small note to thank you for some of the marvelous facts you are showing at this website. My particularly long internet search has at the end been recognized with brilliant information to share with my family members. I 'd repeat that many of us readers are undoubtedly blessed to be in a perfect site with very many outstanding people with valuable things. I feel quite fortunate to have encountered your web site and look forward to tons of more enjoyable moments reading here. Thanks a lot once again for a lot of things.
jordan 1 http://www.jordan1shoes.us
Répondre jordan shoes
à 19:59 le 24 mai 2021 
I want to show some appreciation to the writer just for bailing me out of such a problem. Right after scouting throughout the the web and coming across ways which were not beneficial, I figured my entire life was over. Existing devoid of the solutions to the difficulties you've solved by means of this short post is a critical case, as well as ones that could have in a wrong way damaged my career if I hadn't encountered your blog. That knowledge and kindness in dealing with a lot of things was tremendous. I'm not sure what I would've done if I hadn't come across such a solution like this. I can at this point look forward to my future. Thanks for your time so much for the high quality and results-oriented guide. I won't be reluctant to endorse the sites to anyone who requires tips about this topic.
jordan shoes http://www.jordan13.us.com
Répondre chrome hearts outlet
à 20:00 le 24 mai 2021 
I enjoy you because of your whole efforts on this web page. Debby really likes going through internet research and it's easy to understand why. We learn all relating to the dynamic manner you create functional tips by means of the blog and as well as foster participation from others on that point plus our daughter is in fact discovering a lot. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the new year. You are always carrying out a pretty cool job.
chrome hearts outlet http://www.chromeheartstoreonline.com
0